I am torn on how to address this question and the entire "Happiness Project" concept. On the one hand I think it would be a very good strategy for those who aren't happy already but for people who are satisfied with life mostly as is, planning happiness is a little silly. By all means, if you have issues and are struggling, dive in.
For me, the whole exercise was tedious. Coming up with things to do for 12 months, in advance and then items to check off... just tedious. I enjoyed the concept behind trying to find what makes you happy and doing more of that stuff though.
Two of the things that made me most happy I didn't even consider in January. One was writing screenplays. Yes, while I had written a few beforehand, I had completely fallen out of the habit for years. I really enjoy crafting a story that doesn't have to be hundreds of pages like a novel and doesn't really have the same convention as a novel. And the whole "26 acts" thing that came out of the horrific shootings in Newtown, CT. I found myself super excited to be doing them and planning them to make someone's day a little better and hope they continued it for 26 of their own acts. Generally, I enjoy making others happy so anything that involves helping someone I love or planning an event for them really makes me happy. Finally, I used to sing all the time, at home in the basement, in the shower, karaoke, events etc... but I stopped a few years ago. For no reason at all. I recently started doing it again and I really enjoy it. I'm not very good but I LOVE doing it.
I want to concentrate on doing the above more this coming year as well as finding time for other things I enjoy like learning a language. I really want to learn sign language and Russian. If anyone knows of a place that teaches Russian, hook me up please! You can learn ASL, ESL, Spanish, Italian and Chinese all day long places but I can't find anywhere that teaches Russian. I already speak Spanish, Italian, German, Hebrew and basic Russian but I'd love to expand the Russian (since all I know I taught myself but I know the alphabet (reading and writing) and basic phrases).
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